"The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror."

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Anonymous asked: I feel like no one gives a damn about me! As in if I wasn't here tomorrow, it wouldn't really affect anyone! I know one person cares but there's 7bil people on this planet and I know ONE PERSON who cares -.- All my other friends give up on me like one of the best friends I've EVER had, now she want's nothing to do with me and could forget me in a night! I'm tired of feeling so worthless and insignifficant ;(

tswatch:

You may feel that way, hon, but it’s not true. A lot of people feel that way, but I believe that you would be surprised if you could see into the hearts and minds of others.  You would see just how much they do care about you.  And that one person… they count.  They count a lot.

But you know, when someone is depressed, a lot of people don’t know what to do or how to handle it, so they start to distance themselves.  This doesn’t mean that they don’t love or care for you, it just means that they don’t know what to do for you.  They also have to take care of their own mental and emotional well-being, and sometimes they can’t do both.  That does not mean that they don’t care, though!

Can you speak with a counselor or therapist about this?  They may be ale to help you.

You are not worthless or insignificant.  What you need is to work on your self-esteem!  Tell yourself that you are amazing, even if you don’t believe it.  Tell yourself that you are wonderful, beautiful, smart, and fun.  Just keep telling yourself these things, over and over, until you start to believe them.

Good luck sweetheart.  You can do this!

-Toki

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sofuckingblue:

tell yourself you’re hot. tell yourself you’re amazing. tell yourself you’re untouchably, radiantly attractive. do it every day, even if it feels like you’re lying to yourself. insist to the mirror that you’re the cutest thing its ever reflected. if you do it enough eventually it wont feel like lying anymore, it’ll be automatic, and you’ll recognize yourself as the incredible babe you really are.

ur hot

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kawaibae:

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